2 Samuel 13

1 After some time, David’s son Amnon fell in love with Tamar, the beautiful sister of David’s son Absalom.

2 Amnon was sick with frustration over his sister Tamar, for she was a virgin, and it seemed implausible for him to do anything to her.

3 Now Amnon had a friend named Jonadab, the son of David’s brother Shimeah. Jonadab was a very shrewd man,

4 and he asked Amnon, “Why are you, the son of the king, so depressed morning after morning? Won’t you tell me?” Amnon replied, “I am in love with Tamar, my brother Absalom’s sister.”

5 Jonadab told him, “Lie down on your bed and pretend you are ill. When your father comes to see you, say to him, ‘Please let my sister Tamar come and give me something to eat. Let her prepare it in my sight so I may watch her and eat it from her hand.’”

6 So Amnon lay down and feigned illness. When the king came to see him, Amnon said, “Please let my sister Tamar come and make a couple of cakes in my sight, so that I may eat from her hand.”

7 Then David sent word to Tamar at the palace: “Please go to the house of Amnon your brother and prepare a meal for him.”

8 So Tamar went to the house of her brother Amnon, who was lying down. She took some dough, kneaded it, made cakes in his sight, and baked them.

9 Then she brought the pan and set it down before him, but he refused to eat. “Send everyone away!” said Amnon. And everyone went out.

10 Then Amnon said to Tamar, “Bring the food into the bedroom, so that I may eat it from your hand.” Tamar took the cakes she had made and went to her brother Amnon’s bedroom.

11 And when she had brought them to him to eat, he took hold of her and said, “Come lie with me, my sister!”

12 “No, my brother!” she cried. “Do not violate me, for such a thing should never be done in Israel. Do not do this disgraceful thing!

13 Where could I ever take my shame? And you would be like one of the fools in Israel! Please speak to the king, for he will not withhold me from you.”

14 But Amnon refused to listen to her, and being stronger, he violated her and lay with her.

15 Then Amnon hated Tamar with such intensity that his hatred was greater than the love he previously had. “Get up!” he said to her. “Be gone!”

16 “No,” she replied, “sending me away is worse than this great wrong you have already done to me!” But he refused to listen to her.

17 Instead, he called to his attendant and said, “Throw this woman out and bolt the door behind her!”

18 So Amnon’s attendant threw her out and bolted the door behind her. Now Tamar was wearing a robe of many colors, because this is what the king’s virgin daughters wore.

19 And Tamar put ashes on her head and tore her robe. And putting her hand on her head, she went away crying aloud.

20 Her brother Absalom said to her, “Has your brother Amnon been with you? Be quiet for now, my sister. He is your brother. Do not take this thing to heart.” So Tamar lived as a desolate woman in the house of her brother Absalom.

21 When King David heard all this, he was furious.

22 And Absalom never said a word to Amnon, either good or bad, because he hated Amnon for violating his sister Tamar.

23 Two years later, when Absalom’s sheepshearers were at Baal-hazor near Ephraim, he invited all the sons of the king.

24 And he went to the king and said, “Your servant has just hired shearers. Will the king and his servants please come with me?”

25 “No, my son,” the king replied, “we should not all go, or we would be a burden to you.” Although Absalom urged him, he was not willing to go, but gave him his blessing.

26 “If not,” said Absalom, “please let my brother Amnon go with us.” “Why should he go with you?” the king asked.

27 But Absalom urged him, so the king sent Amnon and the rest of his sons.

28 Now Absalom had ordered his young men, “Watch Amnon until his heart is merry with wine, and when I order you to strike Amnon down, you are to kill him. Do not be afraid. Have I not commanded you? Be courageous and valiant!”

29 So Absalom’s young men did to Amnon just as Absalom had ordered. Then all the other sons of the king got up, and each one fled on his mule.

30 While they were on the way, a report reached David: “Absalom has struck down all the sons of the king; not one of them is left!”

31 Then the king stood up, tore his clothes, and lay down on the ground. And all his servants stood by with their clothes torn.

32 But Jonadab, the son of David’s brother Shimeah, spoke up: “My lord must not think they have killed all the sons of the king, for only Amnon is dead. In fact, Absalom has planned this since the day Amnon violated his sister Tamar.

33 So now, my lord the king, do not take to heart the report that all the sons of the king are dead. Only Amnon is dead.”

34 Meanwhile, Absalom had fled. When the young man standing watch looked up, he saw many people coming down the road west of him, along the side of the hill. And the watchman went and reported to the king, “I see men coming from the direction of Horonaim, along the side of the hill.”

35 So Jonadab said to the king, “Look, the sons of the king have arrived! It is just as your servant said.”

36 And as he finished speaking, the sons of the king came in, wailing loudly. Then the king and all his servants also wept very bitterly.

37 Now Absalom fled and went to Talmai son of Ammihud, the king of Geshur. But David mourned for his son every day.

38 After Absalom had fled and gone to Geshur, he stayed there three years.

39 And King David longed to go to Absalom, for he had been consoled over Amnon’s death.

1 ¶ And it came to pass after this, that Absalom the son of David had a fair sister, whose name [was] Tamar; and Amnon the son of David loved her.

2 And Amnon was so vexed, that he fell sick for his sister Tamar; for she [was] a virgin; and Amnon thought it hard for him to do any thing to her.

3 But Amnon had a friend, whose name [was] Jonadab, the son of Shimeah David's brother: and Jonadab [was] a very subtil man.

4 And he said unto him, Why [art] thou, [being] the king's son, lean from day to day? wilt thou not tell me? And Amnon said unto him, I love Tamar, my brother Absalom's sister.

5 And Jonadab said unto him, Lay thee down on thy bed, and make thyself sick: and when thy father cometh to see thee, say unto him, I pray thee, let my sister Tamar come, and give me meat, and dress the meat in my sight, that I may see [it], and eat [it] at her hand.

6 So Amnon lay down, and made himself sick: and when the king was come to see him, Amnon said unto the king, I pray thee, let Tamar my sister come, and make me a couple of cakes in my sight, that I may eat at her hand.

7 Then David sent home to Tamar, saying, Go now to thy brother Amnon's house, and dress him meat.

8 So Tamar went to her brother Amnon's house; and he was laid down. And she took flour, and kneaded [it], and made cakes in his sight, and did bake the cakes.

9 And she took a pan, and poured [them] out before him; but he refused to eat. And Amnon said, Have out all men from me. And they went out every man from him.

10 And Amnon said unto Tamar, Bring the meat into the chamber, that I may eat of thine hand. And Tamar took the cakes which she had made, and brought [them] into the chamber to Amnon her brother.

11 And when she had brought [them] unto him to eat, he took hold of her, and said unto her, Come lie with me, my sister.

12 And she answered him, Nay, my brother, do not force me; for no such thing ought to be done in Israel: do not thou this folly.

13 And I, whither shall I cause my shame to go? and as for thee, thou shalt be as one of the fools in Israel. Now therefore, I pray thee, speak unto the king; for he will not withhold me from thee.

14 Howbeit he would not hearken unto her voice: but, being stronger than she, forced her, and lay with her.

15 Then Amnon hated her exceedingly; so that the hatred wherewith he hated her [was] greater than the love wherewith he had loved her. And Amnon said unto her, Arise, be gone.

16 And she said unto him, [There is] no cause: this evil in sending me away [is] greater than the other that thou didst unto me. But he would not hearken unto her.

17 Then he called his servant that ministered unto him, and said, Put now this [woman] out from me, and bolt the door after her.

18 And [she had] a garment of divers colours upon her: for with such robes were the king's daughters [that were] virgins apparelled. Then his servant brought her out, and bolted the door after her.

19 And Tamar put ashes on her head, and rent her garment of divers colours that [was] on her, and laid her hand on her head, and went on crying.

20 And Absalom her brother said unto her, Hath Amnon thy brother been with thee? but hold now thy peace, my sister: he [is] thy brother; regard not this thing. So Tamar remained desolate in her brother Absalom's house.

21 ¶ But when king David heard of all these things, he was very wroth.

22 And Absalom spake unto his brother Amnon neither good nor bad: for Absalom hated Amnon, because he had forced his sister Tamar.

23 And it came to pass after two full years, that Absalom had sheepshearers in Baalhazor, which [is] beside Ephraim: and Absalom invited all the king's sons.

24 And Absalom came to the king, and said, Behold now, thy servant hath sheepshearers; let the king, I beseech thee, and his servants go with thy servant.

25 And the king said to Absalom, Nay, my son, let us not all now go, lest we be chargeable unto thee. And he pressed him: howbeit he would not go, but blessed him.

26 Then said Absalom, If not, I pray thee, let my brother Amnon go with us. And the king said unto him, Why should he go with thee?

27 But Absalom pressed him, that he let Amnon and all the king's sons go with him.

28 Now Absalom had commanded his servants, saying, Mark ye now when Amnon's heart is merry with wine, and when I say unto you, Smite Amnon; then kill him, fear not: have not I commanded you? be courageous, and be valiant.

29 And the servants of Absalom did unto Amnon as Absalom had commanded. Then all the king's sons arose, and every man gat him up upon his mule, and fled.

30 ¶ And it came to pass, while they were in the way, that tidings came to David, saying, Absalom hath slain all the king's sons, and there is not one of them left.

31 Then the king arose, and tare his garments, and lay on the earth; and all his servants stood by with their clothes rent.

32 And Jonadab, the son of Shimeah David's brother, answered and said, Let not my lord suppose [that] they have slain all the young men the king's sons; for Amnon only is dead: for by the appointment of Absalom this hath been determined from the day that he forced his sister Tamar.

33 Now therefore let not my lord the king take the thing to his heart, to think that all the king's sons are dead: for Amnon only is dead.

34 But Absalom fled. And the young man that kept the watch lifted up his eyes, and looked, and, behold, there came much people by the way of the hill side behind him.

35 And Jonadab said unto the king, Behold, the king's sons come: as thy servant said, so it is.

36 And it came to pass, as soon as he had made an end of speaking, that, behold, the king's sons came, and lifted up their voice and wept: and the king also and all his servants wept very sore.

37 But Absalom fled, and went to Talmai, the son of Ammihud, king of Geshur. And [David] mourned for his son every day.

38 So Absalom fled, and went to Geshur, and was there three years.

39 And [the soul of] king David longed to go forth unto Absalom: for he was comforted concerning Amnon, seeing he was dead.

1 And it came to pass after this, that Absalom the son of David had a fair sister, whose name was Tamar: and Amnon the son of David loved her.

2 And Amnon feigned himself sick because of Tamar his sister. For she was a virgin, and it seemed hard unto Amnon that he should do her any hurt.

3 And Amnon had a friend, whose name was Jonadab, the son of Simea David's brother: and the same Jonadab was a very wise man.

4 And he said unto him, Why growest thou lean, O king's son, from day to day? wilt thou not tell me? And Amnon said unto him, I have loved Tamar my brother Absalom's sister.

5 And Jonadab said unto him, Lie thee down upon thy bed, and make thee sick. And it shall come to pass, when thy father is come to look upon thee, that thou shalt say unto him, Let my sister Tamar come, that she may suck me, and make a meal before me, that I may watch, and eat of her hand.

6 So Amnon lay down, and was sick. And when the king came to see him, Amnon said unto the king: Let my sister Thamar come, that she may make a vegetable or two before me, and I may eat of her hand.

7 And David sent to Tamar to the house, saying, Go to the house of Amnon thy brother, and make him meat.

8 And Tamar went to the house of Amnon her brother; and he lay in bed. And she took a dough, and kneaded it, and soothed it before his eyes, and cooked him a vegetable.

9 And she took the dish, and poured it out before him: but he refused to eat. And Amnon said, Let every man go out from me. And every man went out from him.

10 And Amnon said unto Tamar, Bring the meat into the chamber, that I may eat of thine hand. And Tamar took the meat which she had made, and brought it into the chamber unto Amnon her brother.

11 And when she had brought it to him to eat, he took hold of her, and said unto her, Come hither, my sister, sleep with me.

12 And she said unto him, Not, my brother, weaken me not, for so one is not in Israel; do not such foolishness.

13 Where will I go with my shame? And thou shalt be like the fools of Israel. But speak unto the king, and he shall not deny me thee.

14 But he would not obey her, and overpowered her, and weakened her, and slept with her.

15 And Amnon was exceeding sorry for her, because the hatred was greater than the love was before. And Amnon said unto her, Arise, and be lifted up.

16 And she said unto him, This evil is greater than the other which thou hast done unto me, to cast me out. But he hearkened not unto her voice,

17 But called unto his lad that was his servant, and said, Drive this one out from me, and shut the door after her.

18 And she had on a coat of many colours: for the king's daughters wore such coats, because they were virgins. And when his servant had driven her out, and shut the door behind her,

19 And Thamar cast ashes upon her head, and rent the coat of many colours that she had on, and put her hand upon her head, and went and cried.

20 And Absalom her brother said unto her: Hath thy brother Amnon been with thee? Now therefore, my sister, hold thy peace; it is thy brother, and take not the matter so much to heart. So Thamar abode alone in Absalom her brother's house.

21 And when king David heard all these things, he was very wroth. But Absalom spake not unto Amnon, neither evil nor good.

22 And Absalom was grieved with Amnon, because he had weakened Tamar his sister.

23 And Absalom had shearers in Baal-hazor, which is under Ephraim, about two years: and Absalom invited all the king's sons.

24 And he came to the king, and said, Behold, thy servant hath shearers: let the king and his servants go with his servant.

25 And the king said unto Absalom, Not so, my son, let us not all go, lest we trouble thee. And when he had urged him, yet he would not go, but blessed him.

26 And Absalom said, Shall not my brother Amnon go with us? And the king said unto him, Why should he go with thee?

27 And Absalom constrained him, that he should leave Amnon and all the king's sons with him.

28 And Absalom commanded his sons, saying, Behold, when Amnon is well pleased with the wine, and I say unto you, Smite Amnon, and slay him, that ye fear not: for I have commanded you; be of good cheer, and be fresh.

29 So the sons of Absalom did unto Amnon as Absalom commanded them. And all the king's sons arose, and every man sat upon his mouth, and fled.

30 And while they were yet in the way, the rumour came before David, that Absalom had slain all the king's sons, that there was not one of them left.

31 And the king arose, and rent his clothes, and lay upon the ground; and all his servants that sat about him rent their clothes.

32 And Jonadab the son of Simea David's brother answered and said, My lord think not that all the lads the king's children are dead; but Amnon is dead to all. For Absalom hath kept it with him from the day that he weakened Tamar his sister.

33 Now therefore, my lord the king, take not this to heart, that all the king's children are dead; but Amnon only is dead.

34 And Absalom fled. And the lad that was in the way lifted up his eyes, and looked, and, behold, a great multitude came one after another by the way of the side of the mountain.

35 And Jonadab said unto the king, Behold, the king's children are come: as thy servant hath said, so it is come to pass.

36 And when he had spoken, behold, the king's sons came and lifted up their voice, and wept. And the king and all his servants wept very sore.

37 And Absalom fled, and went unto Talmai the son of Ammihud king of Geshur. And he mourned for his son all the days of his life.

38 And Absalom fled, and went to Geshur, and was there three years.

39 And king David ceased from going out against Absalom: for he was comforted because of Amnon, because he was dead.